Sunday, August 2, 2009

Tattoo for Mommy and Me


July 16, 2009 marked the 11 year anniversary of my mother's death. She was the most important person in my life and for a long time I just wanted something to express my eternal love for her and honor her memory.

On thursday 7-16-09, I got a tattoo on my thigh of a water lily aka lotus, (one of ) the flower for the month of july. At first I wasnt fond of getting it on my thigh bc it seemed like an inappropriate type spot, like maybe i'd put a boy toys name or something there, but due to the fact that i work in a professional environment, I have to becareful of where i place my body art.

The flower is the beginning of a piece that will be dedicated to those that I love. July is the month of my birth and the month of my mommys death so it was fitting, in december i will get the flower for the month of her birth, then in the future if I live for the passing of my grandmother and aunt/mom figure, i will honor them with their birth month flowers as well.

I love tattoos and i think that a flower is a great symbol of life and death and a beautiful way to show my love to the the ppl i love!

Wednesday, July 22, 2009



Sorry :(

I am soooooo sorry I have been out of commission!

My birthday was amazing and I made sure my boyfriend's birthday was great too

Friday, July 10th, I turned 23! I had a great dinner with my friends at Chima Brazilian Steakhouse. Then, Saturday, I enjoyed a night out at Ly Michaels with my friends. Sunday Night i went to Red Lobster with the boo and my besties!

Then, Wednesday was my baby's bday and so Friday we went to Onyx and had a blast. Never been to a gentlemens club but it was cool! The next night, we hit up a club and had a great time.....I will post pics!

Wednesday, June 10, 2009

Birthday Plans

My birthday is 29 days away

My boyfriends birthday is 34 days away!

I have soooo much planning to do! i love it

Sunday, May 31, 2009

Saturday, May 9, 2009

Hair Break!

I am soooooooooooooooooooo happy to finally give my hair a break!

I got kinky twists and I will def post pics tomorro!

Sunday, May 3, 2009

Insecurity

Insecurity....
a feeling
a curse
a sign

....Can make or break any relaionship

....Can be the root of all evil

Something we all have

Something we CAN control

Something we cannot control

Insecurity can be instilled in the most CONFIDENT person. Once it grabs hold of you, it can slowly poison the relationships you love the most.

This has been my weakness and after a long talk with my boyfriend last night, I really am making a big effort to cleanse my self of this feeling. I am not too much of a jealous type and I am not controlling but sometimes, I get a feeling of insecurity that makes me question things when there is no reason to!

This is my newest goal, and day by day it gets easier to attain!